I know women, especially women of my background as educators, who have been very difficult to date due to the very common nature of these situations. In an age where men are getting ready to engage in violent behavior which may be detrimental to both of us, such things can happen very quickly and we have been known to make the mistake of being more than willing to try to control the situation and it would not serve our good name when the situation gets out. http://fearless-wives. wordpress. com/2014/01/23/females-should-never-lose-relationship.