And a letter from some friends I've had in the past. A confession to my best friend that sometimes it feels so easy for me to feel like I'm a gigantic ass just because I'm having a hard time having fun when I'm on a date. Sorry, I really don't have any ideas or feelings for how you feel to be a part of a love life, I'm just glad I didn't share. So to all of my friends and family I hope to always feel welcome, even if it isn't meant for everybody to enjoy. Even if it means that I'm completely different from my real-life boyfriend, you should not feel that way. You shouldn't feel insecure about saying no to every partner you know, there's more than one way to be happy. Everyone needs to feel valued in their relationship, even though some relationships are way past their best years. But some people don't make that choice. Some people make an unhealthy lifestyle choice that may lead one to an unhealthy relationship. So you should make the choice, if you're not willing to try, and your partner is.