She's still around on her own. In our own lives, it's still different for women than it is for men. But that's where your family comes in sometimes. Some fathers have a tough time keeping their kids happy (even if sometimes they are very nice). You are, and will continue to be, a person whose day-to-day life is the same even if you're not. Your family and those who love you will always love you, but you're never going to be what you were before the relationship closed. You have to change. You have to grow.