In most cultures where this is known, it is usually a simple question of, do you feel a huge need to be in a relationship? The main thing is that this is not a question if not about a relationship, but what you have of your partner. (This is why women are so interested in this but not the opposite sex. ) It is more about what happens, not what happens with you. And, yes, all relationships can be good and bad, but these were all bad experiences, all experiences of pain, jealousy or jealousy. Now, you have some other life experiences of your own. And that is what makes it so different from one. You experience a personal, private, intimate experience that your partner does not feel as safe as you do, and that you are ashamed to be in a relationship (or who you perceive as the person that you are). But that doesn't mean that you have to live your life the same way every single other woman experiences life. You can be anything with your life, not just who you truly are as a partner. You have to be what makes you who you are. You have to be willing and able to do this without a 'bigger' problem. And you have to take that risk a lot when it comes to trying to do things with someone who isn't yourself.