That's what I wanted to prove. As a woman, I couldn't find anyone willing to research this topic. As a woman, my own views were simply not accepted. I had to give up on my own research as I wanted to know more about what my views are, especially as I worked with people on my own to prove that I understand the things I am trying to say (and understand and trust when I say that I can, by myself, do things without taking all the risk of that myself). Now, that's not the point of this book. This book was supposed to prove to women that I was correct when I said I had a specific problem with fat-ness. I didn't. When I first started out with men this was a very common idea, however. The problem was, it was very hard to convince men that they're a problem with weight-loss or losing (even if that meant I was really in denial!) because they believed I'm trying to push women to become healthier by pushing them to be fat. I was only telling two stories, which are important, and this book would do an excellent job of convincing these men.