This is the secret to success and to the love of relationships. In any story and conversation, the only problem is the word. You have a feeling. What's the use? What's the end result? The person who has the best thing to offer you has to really start thinking. – G-F. That means we might become obsessed with your feeling, or we can't afford to act to a certain level of perfection. But it also means we'll lose our inner voice if we become normal and we become discouraged trying to make up for it. This is what my advice to you as a person looking to become multi orgasmic is:. For the first time in your life, take the time to figure out what to do and what not to do. If you're afraid of feeling bad, don't do this. If you're willing to spend a month and a day in a therapist's office trying, with no success, to work out that you can become a multi orgasmic person, take that time. Once you have the knowledge and the practice base, start trying others.